Between Epiphany and General Conference, there isn’t much else to do but fight. Don’t let it happen.
Winter is coming already here
After the liturgical day of Epiphany, we enter Ordinary Time: eight Sundays until Lent begins. In the assigned Scriptures from the Lectionary, this is a time of reading stories about Jesus. But in the world of United Methodism, this is just a time for fighting.
We’ve been somewhat good up until now. There
But there are few distractions between now and General Conference at the end of February. Some secular holidays: MLK Jr Day, President’s Day, Valentine’s, and the Super Bowl. But no churchy holidays. No breaks or things to look forward to until the foreboding General Conference February 23-26th.
Already the contentions have emerged as caucus groups issue
A January Surprise?
In secular politics, an “October Surprise” is a dubious or sensational accusation against a candidate for President. It is meant to sway popular opinion at the last minute before the November election, trusting that the populace will respond with fear rather than with rational discourse.
In United Methodism, I anticipate a similar action. Even though we’ve had many months of sitting with these plans, it is still human delegates who have the final say, and those with say can be swayed by fear. It might be:
- A shadow proposal to replace one of the 3-6 under consideration.
- A bloc of churches banding together and seeking to leave The United Methodist Church unless the Traditionalist Plan passes (which has already happened for some).
- A bloc of delegates pledging to vote to dissolve United Methodism rather than endorse any plan.
This is not to say that continued evaluation should not continue–I have a rather dire financial analysis of the Traditionalist Plan that will come out next week only because it took this long to get all the data from the gatekeepers. But we should be wary of what we see in the coming days and see whether the rational content outweighs the emotional effects.
General Conference is political. And so we must be aware and wary of political shenanigans that work in the secular world–because we might see them creeping into the church world too.
Enduring all that lies ahead
All this uproar is intentional: Discontent and disruption cause humans to choose the safest
But we can choose a better path. While for the summer and fall, we could stick our heads in the sand and focus on the mission and ministry of the local church in front of us, we can no longer do that in these final days. We must engage and endure for the sake of those marginalized by our own church polity and those most affected by the harmful rhetoric and actions by our own church leadership, and most of all for the sake of the Gospel that we believe United Methodists have a good chance of offering well in the 21st century.
So in the days ahead, I invite you to:
- Pray for the delegates. Lists are in the ADCA to pray by name or region. Contact the ones you have personal relationships with or conference connections to let them know of your prayers and why.
- Care for LGBTQ persons close to you. Reach out to LGBTQ United Methodists in your life and ask how you can be a support
or ally to them. LGBTQ Methodists are the ones most talked about, most affected, and yet least included in GC2019. Pick up the slack because GC will be a trauma unlike any other before. - Continue to be educated on General Conference plans. Reading this blog, United Methodist News, UM-Insight, and other resources offer a variety of perspectives on the plans. And here’s a 1000 word primer on how we got to this point.
- Ask subject matter experts for any questions so no fake news or misconceptions reign. You are welcome to contact me with any polity questions through my Facebook page messenger.
- Engage a new spiritual practice. Try something new to sustain your anxiety or fear. Chat with a friend whenever the doom starts to overcome.
- Make a plan. Work on some scenarios if the different plans pass. Compare them with others so you have something to work on if one of the plans pass GC.
Your turn
This season between Christmas and Lent is the longest it can be. The winter of UMC discontent will be brutal. But the people called Methodists do not have to be brutal to one another.
My prayer is that you care for yourself, care for others, care for the
Thoughts?
Thanks for reading, commenting, and sharing on social media.
Sarah
Some wise advice I heard was for pastors to have a “safe place”- friends, clergy peer group, family vacation – somewhere to process just after the conference so they can be more present when the congregation members start asking for meetings…
RogerD
Sarah….this is exelent, sage advice.
Wayne Cook
I can’t help but shake this feeling that the Called General Conference will be a bust. The can will be kicked down the road… again. The very idea that the Conference will sit as a Committee of the Whole Conference is enough to ensure gridlock. In the meantime, our LGBTQ sisters and brothers will be disrespected and slammed. I pray for the Holy Spirit to bring justice and clarity.
Amy
Continued prayers for compassion, love, and inclusivity for all God’s children, without exception. There is so much hurt, pain, and trauma associated with living in this world as someone who is LGBTQ. The church should be a place where anyone can sense the unconditional love and acceptance of the creator. One of the most helpful books I have read and cannot recommend enough is “The Children Are Free” by Jeff Miner. Please, please include this for those having difficulty integrating faith and LGBTQ identities!!!
Mike D.
This is why I’m an atheist. Most of the “Christians” I’ve encountered in my life have only cared about themselves and have never once even pretended to do any of the things their Jesus commanded them to do. Even the “good” Christians I’ve known would rather exclude than be made the least bit uncomfortable themselves.
Daniel
That is why you’re an atheist? Because of other people’s behavior?
Whether a plan passes or not in February, gay people are certainly still welcome in church. They just can’t lead a church or getting married to someone of the same-sex, same as it has always been and will probably always be in most Christian churches. For the author of this article and several of the commentators to imply there is some impending physical or emotional danger to LGBT identifying church members, is very irresponsible. Yes, there will be consequences for leadership who practice homosexuality, may need to step down, but I’ll bet they don’t and won’t be forced even if the traditionalist plan passes. So, please stop the alarmism.
Alex da Silva Souto
Amazingly insightful!
Thank you Jeremy!
Callie
In a time when there are still Christians who believe it’s ok to exclude LGBTQ persons from things like anti-lynching laws, I pray my Methodist siblings can show the love of Christ is inclusive and will lead Christians everywhere in showing radical love to ALL God’s children. We must set the example and walk in a way that proves we are all of sacred worth.
Linda Williams
Amen!