The process of Christian conversion provides a predictable framework for Kim Davis’ actions–and that framework is more commonplace than you think.
Civil Authority…and a Convert?
I’m frankly annoyed to write about Kim Davis, the most recent Christian to cash in on the backlash to marriage equality. From pizza parlors to Oregon bakers, my religion seems to reward those who stand up for their beliefs in ways that discriminate against people. It’s a cycle that won’t stop anytime soon.
Further, it was revealed that Davis has been married four times and bore children out of wedlock–both actions one would think does more harm to fundamentalist ideas of Christian marriage than two men marrying. But then it all makes sense when we read this:
“It’s a matter of fact that she’s been married multiple times.” Staver says “it’s not really relevant, it’s something that happened in her past” and that her conversion to Christianity about four years ago wiped her slate clean. “It’s something that’s not relevant to the issue at hand,” he says. “She was 180 degrees changed.” (source)
Davis, an Apostolic Christian, says her commitment to her faith came after she found “a message of grace” four years ago when she went to church following the death of her mother-in-law.
“I am not perfect. No one is,” she said in her statement. “But I am forgiven and I love my Lord and must be obedient to Him and to the Word of God.”
The process of Christian conversion provides a predictable framework for her actions–and that framework is more commonplace than you think.
The Joy of Converts
Saul was a Pharisee and prosecutor of the early Christians. He was traveling down the road one day and God struck him blind and revealed to him that Jesus Christ was to be followed, not denounced. Saul became Paul and he used his educated Greek and Hebrew background (as a Pharisee) to become the most widely known follower of Christ in history, thanks to his letters and his zeal to spread the Gospel.
From the first convert to the way of Jesus Christ on to today, we see that conversion from an old way of life to a new way of life is often very dramatic. This helps lift up people out of the cycles of death they are a part of, and turn them towards a new path. Thanks be to God!
The Problem of Converts
Conversion is a great and necessary component to Christianity. However, the way how humans use their conversion story or experience after the event is of great concern when it comes to their power over others.
The first problem with converts is that they consider their previous life to be wholly other to who they are now that they identify with the way of Jesus Christ. Saul became Paul, and likewise, most converts consider their previous lives to be “wholly other.” I ran an online forum for interfaith conversation for 5 years, and whenever a newcomer came on very strong with bible passages and anti-progressive comments, I would usually say “I bet that’s a Catholic convert.” I was usually right–and they usually argued against aspects of their previous life. One Methodist blogger was well known for denying hell existed–but after a conversion experience in therapy, he’s now outspoken against any progressive thought. When someone converts, the old life is wholly other, and all aspects of it must be opposed, lest the person backslide to what they were.
The second problem with converts is that many want to force that conversion experience for other people. And that means public policy and ecclesial (church) policy that replicates that conversion. If we were saved at camp, then we support Christian camps. If we were saved through a missionary to our country, then we support missionaries to other countries. If we were saved through education, then we support education efforts. Private support of those efforts is perfectly fine. Advocating for those efforts in public or in ecclesial channels is fine. The rough edge comes when our private support becomes public policy forced upon others.
In short, you may have eternity, but that doesn’t excuse you arbitrarily forcing public policy to reflect that experience.
A Consistent Viewpoint
Conversion is often a messy process that involves tedious times for the convert and their relationships. Most converts do well and adjust thanks to friends and mentoring. But a sizable few use their roles in public or ecclesial life to:
- Oppose the elements or beliefs that characterized their previous life with the goal that no one holds those beliefs or experiences.
- Mandate exposure to the elements or experiences that characterized their conversion experience to replicate it for others.
Given these two, it is of little wonder that “of course” Kim Davis would deny the same-gender couple marriage, and want for them to convert to Jesus instead. Further, it’s understandable that Davis sees no conflict between her old way of life and her current beliefs–that’s a garment tossed aside, an old wineskin, and no longer has any relevance to Davis. It’s wholly consistent with conversion narratives and lived beliefs, most of which don’t get in the news.
Forcing Conversion Through Conformity
I don’t know anything about Kim Davis’ conversion story. But I do know that when converts live their new life in ways that become harmful to others, it is problematic.
I think one key responsibility of those who mentor people through conversion experiences (including pastors like myself) is to emphasize how personal this experience is. God didn’t strike down everyone on the road–just a few people like Saul. Paul didn’t force people to walk the same road that he did, either literally or figuratively; instead, he guided hundreds or thousands in different methods. Instead of a perfect method that slayed death, it’s a billion individual paths of the limitless Spirit.
So when it comes time for us to help others convert or seek a new path, we cannot force our experience or rail against the “old me” we see in others. To do so is to create a psychological break from the past that bifurcates their life into before-and-after, causing everything before to be anathema. We who help people have a responsibility to help the convert properly frame their old life and their new life, especially when it comes to paying forward the experience to others.
This is key because when we have power over people, we cannot force our converted religious beliefs on them because they haven’t walked the personal experience God is preparing for them. We can set the stage, we can be a mindful presence, but we cannot dictate how and when the Spirit will appear as an echo of our stories.
Thoughts?
My hope is that all those who use their power in church or society to force others to subscribe to their religious beliefs see that their efforts are not for conversion’s sake–they are abuses of power in ways unbecoming of who the new Christians are called to be.
Thoughts?
Oops- a typo spell check wouldn’t catch that I wanted to let you know about.
“From the first covert to the way of Jesus Christ on to today”
There are some covert converts. 🙂
Great piece.
Ha! Paul was definitely NOT a covert convert! Thanks!
I have some pretty unflattering baggage in my past. I do not feel a need to elaborate on what this is, because I believe we all have varying degrees of unflattering baggage. When I first went into ministry, I wanted to gloss over this mess with the attitude of “a slate wiped clean.” I realized the hypocrisy of this through the love and mentoring of friends and mentors. I now find that my past and God’s grace are very much a part of gifts I bring to ministry. (No I do not think the things of my past happened, so I would be the minister I am today. I believe that God took the mess of my past and formed a beautiful future from the shambles.)
I find I have compassion on those who struggle to live their Christian faith with integrity and without hypocrisy. I realize none of us have reached perfection, and have only arrived at where we are as a result of the grace of God and it wasn’t quick work. People like this court clerk act as if they have magically arrived at a destination without traveling the journey they took to get there.
I take Matthew 7:1 pretty seriously. What if during this woman’s faith formation she had read this and thought, “wow, when I judge others, those marks on my blank slate begin bleeding back through like the ink on the Marauder’s Map. (No, I do not think this is sound theological teaching, but it is a fairly visual picture.) The issue isn’t whether or not this woman had the sins of her past wiped clean, but that she is continuing in sin, although perhaps a different version, when she practices the sins of pride, judgment, and hypocrisy, not to mention being a bad example of the nature of Christ.
All of the verses that people want to cherry pick from the Bible often exclude Matt. 7:1, Proverbs 15:1, and 1 Peter 4:8. We can add to that Matthew 25:40, Matthew 18:6 (Mark 9:42, Luke 17:2), John 13:34–35, Deut. 6:5 (Matthew 22:37, Luke 10:27, 1 John 4:19-21. I could go on, but I have already listed more verses than is claimed to judge those who wanted a marriage license from her.
Now, go and sin no more.
If she really wants them to convert to Jesus, perhaps she should study up on his teachings a bit more herself. Jesus met people where they are, with love and compassion. She is forgiven for the past, but she is currently a bigot.
You asked for thoughts, so here they are. If you can’t show grace to someone in the body of Christ, how then do you show grace to the unbeliever? Kim Davis is a relatively new Christian and is doing her best to follow her conscience. My understanding is she was not comfortable affixing her name to the license and so didn’t issue any licenses to gay or straight couples. As you posted your blog this morning, you were merely “annoyed” over “another recent Christian to cash in” and needed to criticize her actions with a blog post featuring a cartoon that mocks her. How does one exactly “cash in” waking up in a prison cell? Another red flag for me is how you use the phrase “progressive thought” several times. It comes across that you think highly of your progressive thought and look down on those who haven’t spiritually evolved to your level. I would rather see a post that attempts to see both sides and strives to bring about peace, instead of kicking a fellow servant of Christ, while she is down. Just my thoughts.
Very well said, Christina.
Isn’t it wonderful that God forgives all sins in conversion from worldly lives to biblical living. Saving faith in Jesus Christ results in a clean slate, a life-long cleansing from the ways of selfishness as the faithful get to know God as Savior and our Lord. Sins of divorce(s) and sexual immorality, like homosexual intercourse, are no more unforgiveable than any other sin. The culture in which faithful Christians live is only a conduit of God’s grace to the extent that it aligns with God’s will for human-kind. For millennia, Christians have wiped the dust off their feet when the society in which they are living rears its ugly, selfish head. It’s no different today. God’s will is being done on earth as it is in heaven.
Why do you convert? That is my question. In Hinduism and Buddhism there are no conversions. You are either are born into these philosophies, or become one of your own volition – by practicing what you want to while choosing to voluntarily identify yourself as a Hindu or a Buddhist. I always wondered, knowing many people who come from poor Third World nations, where conversions were going on all over the place,.how many of these converts are changing their faith for practical and for material reasons, rather than for a true appreciative understanding of Christian theology? I have met many immigrant, Black and Brown, Christian converts in places like Texas who got their visas through their churches, and their middle class life, even funds to start businesses, through all kinds of Christian associations. Some might be playing immigration fraud and even financial fraud. These Converts, and their cunning to play many systems, scare me. They should scare you good Christians too. These are not people one would ever trust easily. Why would good Christians want such people in your fold? If you give with thought, generously and non judgmentally, and not convert, that is true giving and caring. If you use charity to convert, and operate covertly, like a devious spy, how does that make you a good Christian or even a good person?